The hardest thing about a break up is moving on. You find yourself hiding out in your house because you'd rather be thinking about your ex than moving on. Before you even figure out if you want to get your ex girlfriend back
you first need to fix some things within yourself. This starts with finding the will power to get off of your couch and out of the house.
One of the first things that will happen is that your friends will see this change in you and invite you out for a night of fun. They mean well though it can seem like they're pushing you too fast or too quickly. The truth is a night out is probably exactly what you need. It would not be surprising if you found you needed a few such nights to really get back in the swing of things. These are the moments why you have friends so suck up their invitations and get out there and experience some social interaction again.
This activity can have an effect on your ex as well. She expects you be to broken up, useless, and very depressed right now. If you share mutual friends she'll definitely get word of your nights out with the guys and become curious. Even though you may not feel like it pretending to have fun with your friends can get you reunited with your ex if the impression is the right one. Your ex can see the guy she used to know and fall in love with through having a little fun. Since this is something you did without her she may also discover she misses you. When she misses you you're on your way to getting her back.
A night out with the guys will do more than just ease the pain of a break up. It can help you think clearer and distract your mind so when you talk to your ex you'll be ready to work through the issues that have been lingering that caused the split. It can also get your girl interested in you again but becoming more of the man she fell in love with than the man who was laying depressed on his couch flipping through channels. Your ex girlfriend wants you to be the confident guy she fell for, which is why a good night out with your friends is beneficial, and much more recommended than bombarding her with endless text messages and telephone calls. So, take a deep breath, get off your couch, and find your old self again!